At the surface level, the concept of a man cave can evoke a lot of questions. Why does a man need a refuge from the rest of his home? What’s the female equivalent to a man cave? (Hint: don't say the kitchen.) If a guy doesn't care about the decor or fixtures of his home, why does he suddenly place so much value on having a personal space in which he can do whatever he wants? Even though this unexplained need for personal space is not unlike the teenager who demands his or her own room and the creative freedom to decorate said room however possible, the fact remains that many men want -- and get -- a room in the home they can call their own.
The contents of these man caves can vary from one to the next, but common fixtures include ample comfortable seating, entertainment in the form of a television, a video game system or gaming table supporting billiard, ping pong and/or air hockey, and -- perhaps more importantly -- no trace whatsoever of the feminine touch that in many cases pervades the rest of the home.
And even though guys might shudder when interior decor is brought up, it's just as likely that they'll get highly territorial and opinionated when it comes to dressing up the walls of a man cave. With that in mind, it's wise to approach a man cave's design both practically and systematically to make sure it becomes everything he wants.
Choosing a focal point
The focal point of a man cave should be whatever the man considers to be the most important fixture. In most cases, that's a flat-screen television, but alternatives include a foosball or gaming table computer or even a bar. The rest of the room's trappings can be built around this centerpiece, letting you arrange furniture and choosing complimenting entertainment features.
Establishing a theme
Is the guy in question a big sports fan? Does he own some sort of collection he’d like to display? Does he want his man cave to be an homage to a certain person or entity? In this case, the best approach is to let the man exercise his own creative muscles. If that means walls littered with Spiderman posters, so be it. If one corner is devoted to an extensive trucker hat collection, that's his choice.
Man caves often depart from the decor of the rest of the home, and in a fair number of instances that decor may lack consistency itself. But if the goal is to provide a man with a space that is all his own, then the best approach is to let him make all the decisions -- and live with the results.
Rounding out the offerings
Once the basics are in place, the rest of the room can be filled in with smaller furniture and accessories. For the female in a shared living situation, this can be a good opportunity to move that Die Hard collector's set from the main living room into the man cave, where it’ll be better appreciated and less visible to the casual visitor. In many cases, this work can be done on the cheap by simply arranging furniture and installing some basic features into the room.
For more intensive man cave projects requiring renovating a room, such as to install a bar area, higher costs and greater planning may be involved. In these cases, it’s wise to talk to a contractor ahead of time to get a sense of the estimated costs of these plans.
In the end, the ultimate man cave is simply one that provides an entertaining respite for a man and his friends. Such a setup can cost as much or as little as you want depending on what you want and what you already have to outfit the room. Some people choose to sink a considerable amount of money into having a multi-purpose entertaining room, but if you decide to do that, don't expect the women to politely bend over backwards and give you full reign of your domain.
This article was provided by Jessica Stark. Jessica is interested in gardening and DIY projects. She enjoys spending time outdoors and blogging on behalf of Sears and other brands she loves. Image via atgcustom.